I talk about slow introductions to adopters all the time and I talk with the NW foster parents about it a lot too. I'm sure they are pretty sick of me saying all the time "don't forget, you need to do a slow intro with your pack" when I hand over their new foster dogs. I can be like a broken record. However, I have lived with the outfall of moving too fast through introductions and had disastrous results that made life pretty miserable for humans and dogs alike in our house.
So when I saw how alarmed Langley seemed by Zuni's erratic movements, and also the way Zuni reacted to Langley's standard jumping and lunging when he's worried, I knew I needed to be really careful. At this point they are never allowed out loose together. In fact I don't even have them out leashed in the same area at this point. One is crated and the other gets to be politely curious. When Zuni is the one crated it's much easier since Langley immediately relaxes when he knows she's contained. However, when Langley is crated, I watch very closely. As soon as Zuni does a couple appropriate sniffs, I throw two treats - one piece of kibble into Langley's crate and the other about 3 feet in the other direction across Zuni's line of sight so she'll tear off happily and everyone ends the interaction feeling good about things.
After doing crate intros a great next step is going for a walk together - both dogs and 2 people. Everyone lines up so dogs are on the outside at first and not needing to touch each other or get close: dog-human-human-dog. Once they start to be less worried about being near the other dog, you can get a little closer: dog-human-dog-human. When they seem fine with that you can maneuver a few short "moving butt sniffs" as you walk so dog's don't feel vulnerable. Keep it short! Some dogs like Langley can go full "roto-rooter" with butt sniffs when they're nervous and then you've undone all the good will the walk has created.
Finally, when everyone's body language seems calm and relaxed (if it isn't, save this step for another walk) you can move so the dogs are walking together: human-dog-dog-human. Some dogs will be totally okay with each other at this point, but if one of the dogs is anxious, your best bet upon returning to the house is to separate them with a yummy chew as a reward for a job well done. You may not get past step one of the walk but that's okay. Allow the dogs to choose when they are ready for the next step.
It may seem a snail's pace to you, but take it from someone who has learned the hard way, better to practice patience now and enjoy a peaceful household and relaxed dogs in the long run.
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